
As our first round of cohort groups exploring the Introductory Wisdom School (sponsored by Wisdom Waypoints) ends, and the new year begins, we offer this beautiful reflection from a self-organizing Wisdom circle. As you read how they came together and what they have experienced, we invite you to wonder how this might organically happen in your own circles, both locally and internationally.
It was unexpected. We had all done the Introductory Wisdom School at different times but we all came together in The Divine Exchange (both have been offered through The Center for Action and Contemplation—CAC, currently on hold) in the spring of 2024. We were Seekers finding each other. We come from four different countries with an ocean dividing us, four different time zones having a seven-hour time difference and a 30 year span in ages. It began with several people in the cohort almost simultaneously asking on the CAC discussion board whether there was a way we could talk to each other. Jim cleared the idea with the CAC facilitator and set up the first zoom offering to handle the technology. 11 people responded affirmatively and after the first zoom gathering we became a group of 10.
What became clear from the outset was that we were all seeking what we came to know as the Wisdom Way of Knowing. All of us wanting more of a connection than simply posting on the CAC course discussion board could provide. All of us seeking fellowship and understanding and wanting to build relationships with people who were also seeking the Wisdom Way of Knowing. There was, perhaps, a desire to see the faces and hear the voices of the people who were beginning to write about deeply personal aspects of life. As we have built those relationships, what was once an hour zoom gathering has grown to more than an hour and a half to meet the needs of the relationships that have been built and the learning taking place.
“As one of the people who instigated the Zoom sessions, I recognized that the message board was not giving me the full learning engagement I was seeking. Having done some other group conversations online, I believed that having real-time interaction would benefit me in working through divine exchange material that was both challenging and intriguing – supporting my effort to know more deeply, and beyond just my intellectual center.” Jim
“While participating in “The Divine Exchange” I felt quite lonely, being the only cohort member from Germany. Through the zoom meetings I got to know wonderful people, who are spiritual seekers like me and have become friends with whom I can talk about everything across the ocean. I’m very thankful for this opportunity and the feeling that we, as a group, are growing together.” Christine
What was unexpected was that although we came together for a purpose as Wisdom seekers, we became a relational community in which we were living out the Practice. For the monk, it is the monastery. For us, it is this group. It is the place in which we are able to take Cynthia’s statement “Don’t take my word for it. Experience it for yourself” and do just that. It is the place where we are reminded to find our feet just by being in each other’s presence. It is the place of personal stories held to the light of the Law of Three. It is witnessing the group feel its way through the shock point of the Law of Seven. It is the teachings made personal and intimate and relational in community. It is an ongoing, continual prayer. It is the place in which we can embody the Wisdom way of Knowing in our unique ways. It is the sacred space in which we do the Work that is challenging, sometimes formidable and at other moments recognizable but all very personal. We come together because we reflect each other and the Work of one impacts the Work of all of us.
“I often marvel at the closeness I feel with the group, despite the distances (and time zones) that separate us. Deborah has played a vital role in keeping us connected, coordinated, and growing together in our learning, and Jim still hosts the calls and provides a grounded group structure. Ideally, I would like to spend more time devoted to the study and practice of Wisdom, and I’m considering making changes in my life that might make that possible. I very much hope our group continues to journey together and to bear the rich fruit it has over this past year and a half.” Sandra
“Since July 2024, I have been a part of a small group comprised of seekers from both the old and new worlds. Together, we have been walking our individual spiritual paths, supporting each other as we grow and learn. Our group is dedicated to exchanging personal stories, sharing spiritual practices, and attending courses collectively. Through these experiences, we have worked to expand our awareness and deepen our receptivity, always guided by love and free from judgment. One of the most profound lessons I am gaining from this experience is the ability to truly listen to others. Deep listening has become an essential part of our interactions, allowing us to understand and support one another on a meaningful level.” David
“Our group has a distinct life force, which is hard to describe but I recognize the feel of it when we meet. Though each of us comes with different circumstances and areas of interest within the Wisdom tradition, we meet on shared ground, and a palpable current of Wisdom seems to flow between us. I find it greatly enriching to share my own learning with this group of people whose understanding and love for the Wisdom way of knowing resonates with my own. I also learn from group members who are making forays into areas that are unfamiliar to me. I now feel more rooted in the Divine than at any other time in my life. Where I live, few around me share this Wisdom path of faith, so the group is an oasis.” Sandra
“There is something so special about kindred spirits on a journey who meet to share the essence of their experiences and know that what is offered is heard because everyone in the group is on the same journey. There are many roads but one destination. We are all just walking each other home.” Mary
Cynthia Bourgeault has given us the words and the language, has given us the tools of the Practice and shown us how the Practice could be done. We have lived our way into it. We are told that our mind may not remember everything from the Introductory Wisdom School and The Divine Exchange but over time the teachings become rooted and take hold. We have sensed the truth of that. This past year we studied the Law of Three with Marcella Kraybill-Greggo and uncovered the truth of it within the living dynamism of our group. We listened to the explanation of Ora et Labora and then found that over time we have developed the rhythm of flowing from individual to group and from prayer to work, together. The flow has become more than monthly zoom calls. There is a steady back and forth of emails as we share our individual experiences and practices and share resources that allow for deepening from individual to group and back to individual. It is this flow between quadrants that keeps us connected on whatever level we are able at any given time.
“Our monthly zoom calls have become a place of grounding and community for me. Because of the shared Wisdom path knowledge and approaches to spirituality, we can drop into depth of conversation I can’t find in any other sphere of my life. This both feeds my soul, allows me to feel seen and known, and also provides a touchpoint for the journey, a form of gentle accountability. Our gatherings remind me to continue to press into the Wisdom path, invigorate me with new shared resources, questions to ponder, and ways to support and hold one another. The group has been a divine gift, something I think the spirit created opportunity for and we all said yes to.” Danielle
“The rhythm of the class provided an initial organizing frame for our conversation; over time, the opportunity to share and witness how the Wisdom work showed up for each of us provided the motivation to continue to connect and do the ‘Ora et Labora’ under the umbrella of ‘together.’ I think we have done a good job of meeting each other wherever we are. Just as importantly, our conversations helped me to more clearly see how this work could be applied in my life – engaging with real people with real stories of holding this material in the awareness of what life was bringing them at the time. It was also helpful to see how the material resonated in similar ways for us despite our differences in spiritual paths, place around the globe and stage of life. It has been an opportunity for the hope that this work offers to be brought to life and shared.” Jim
We have recently experienced the Law of Seven as the group has worked its way back to its original formation through our commitment to participate as a full group of ten in the new Introductory Wisdom School offered by Wisdom Waypoints (https://wisdomwaypoints.org/courses/introductory-wisdom-school/). Starting in the new year we will journey together through this Introductory Wisdom School, accompanied by cohort facilitator Marcella Kraybill-Greggo. For the first time all of us will be together for the Introductory Wisdom School, prepared to go deeper and to know with more of ourselves. I think this unexpectedness of what has happened over the past couple of years and continues to happen allows us to know that perhaps, at moments, we connect with the imaginal realm. It is beyond our knowing.
“A cloud of unknowing has no sharp edges. It does not cling. It empties itself. This is an act of hope that God is beyond me and also within me. God is beyond us and also within us. When I choose this faith and this hope, the God within me cannot but love the God that is within everyone and everything.” Marcus
The group is our home base, our monastery so to speak. It is where we both learn and practice the Wisdom way of knowing. It is where our vulnerability is held in trust and love. It is a place to experience the unknowing; to search for that which is hidden. It is where the ten experience Oneness. When we go into the world we carry the Oneness of the ten with us and bring it back when we gather again.
“I have come to believe that in order to do the Wisdom work an individual must be working within a community that is relational and is a committed community to Wisdom work. The Work cannot be done alone. It must have alone time but it needs the balance of community in equal measure. The community needs a relational component that is or can be developed over time. Our zoom group holds that relational community commitment for me. Whatever deeper knowing I have now compared to where I was when I began the Wisdom school is owed as much to the zoom group as to my own knowing.” Deborah
Christine (Mainz, Germany), Danielle (Lincoln, Nebraska, USA), David (Merrickvile, Ontario, Canada), Deborah (Yorkville, Illinois, USA), Jim (Greensboro, North Carolina, USA), Marcus (Kerrville, Texas, USA), Mary (Central Texas, USA), Michele (New Jersey, USA), Sara (England, UK), Sandra (Norwich, England, UK)



