“Mystical Hope” Chapter Four

The day is breaking over perhaps the peak of the autumn color: gold, peach, deep red, various greens from yellow to black forest glowing in the early morning light. Each day contains so many moments, so many moods. Unknowns. It is dawn quiet; I have a puppy who needed a little extra loving this morning beside me in the chair by the window. She is so small—only a few pounds—her softness is featherweight. I feel full inside; aware of the bounty and blessing of a day. There is a vibrational sense of attunement with daybreak, with a movement unfolding. Each little thing is part of it.

I am also exhausted. My body is healing from a year and a half of seemingly all-consuming troubles: no need to make a list. My poor nervous system. I know the day will demand something from me that I may not be sure I have. I do not know how all that is asking to happen will actually manifest in the hours to come. Yet, I feel completely the beauty of the new day, feel it resonating in my bones, budding possibility. Unshakably rooted within—a sense that it will be ok no matter what happens. I feel that way about the hope that Cynthia calls Mystical Hope. I experience it as a mystery; that all this belongs, and all the stops along the bridge connecting one pole to the opposing pole, belong. It is sincere, certain. It is true.

Each time I read Mystical Hope, I find myself struck in a new way by a turn of phrase or Cynthia’s genius relating poignant truth. I love the chapters where she wades into the deeper waters, taking us with her into territory that most do not attempt to put words to: like Chapter Four: Dying Before You Die. She identifies the chapter as wanting to talk about “…that hard ground…those situations where the fixing does not occur…” (pg. 58). To truly experience that Mercy is alive in the very fabric of life, even when all around us is nothing but pain and loss. This morning I linger on the fullness and the fulfillment in the deep seabed of Mercy: “the final restoration of all things at the end of time” (pg. 63). The wonder that everything is already here, already given, complete in itself as it is; any given moment already contains all things. When we are engaged in the practices and changes of “dying before we die” we find something of the nature and quality of the end of time is right now. What is dying is that which separates us. Through that window, peering over the edge of the alchemical pot we are cooking in, we know that this is true. Time is fuller, immediacy is not urgency, each moment is both fresh and eternal. Alive.

We had a giant jade tree in the corner of our room for a while. It was enormous—growing from a relatively small plant, over time. One year it blossomed. Amazing! Never had seen that before. An extravagant display of simple but beautiful white flowers coming out all over the place. Then it began to drop its branches, one after the other, making piles around the big pot. There was nothing we could do. Eventually, with almost no plant left, the main stem, by then at least three inches thick and only a few inches tall, gently toppled over and there was nothing left but a black hole in its center.

This image arose—along with the memory of little jade plants, tiny by comparison, popping up here and there in the potting soil—out of “dying before we die.” It can be dramatic, and more often it is incremental. One step at a time. Stunning, and hard. Lately I have noticed compassion when I am angry at myself. It is natural—the flip side of the gesture. Regret feels useless, unnecessary. These observations come in the process of the shedding: the dropping off of notions of importance or relevance or a singular sense of ‘myself’ as something special. It is challenging in my culture to feel real, simple, equanimous self-love. I realize that what self-love I know only came after letting it go. After bumps and bruises. And only after I began to include myself in the picture of a whole-world-now.

We are adepts at leaving ourselves out of what matters most deeply to us. In the wholeness, completeness and fulfillment of the Mercy it is true: it is all already here. It is simple. More than acceptable, it is as it is. There is nothing to be. To paraphrase Cynthia’s story of the gift her friend Jamien gave her young children on her deathbed: the Mercy carries us buoyantly on into life on a current of love (pg. 68).

In due part the wholeness of life includes inevitable loss, pain, separation, and the distress of things not being what is imagined, or working out at all. I have come to honor that. Sometimes the same regrets that fell away easily last month return with the force of compulsion and have to be wrestled with, again. The fall happens daily in small ways, then sometimes hits like a ton of bricks.

These days I am learning more about the brain and pain in physical therapy: specifically, how the part of the brain that wants to protect us from everyday insult warns us about movements not being safe—to a fault, and for its own purpose. It is all part of how we work with what we’ve got. Moving into and towards the physical pain of injury, we meet the door that opens to the other side of it. Step by step, consciously noticing what is really happening and registering the sensations, and then suddenly the same movement is no longer painful and a sense of core strength grows, emerges. New found energy carries the body in a clearer, focused, stronger movement that has resiliency and power. We do this all the time in lots of different ways. Or we run from it.

How do we come to trust the Mercy? In meditation recently, I was praying to the master teachers Muhammad, Buddha, Lama, Jesus and Moses. Feeling my cry for help—my vulnerability and incapacity in all its tenderness in the moment—deep sobs began rising in my limbs. Simultaneously arising was the recognition that these masters I pray with are all touched by God, and all human beings. They are not separated from God, the veil between them has fallen away. I recognized in that moment how forcefully I separate myself. Humbling, to once again accept and let go.

When Jesus prayed in the garden, his people were sleeping nearby unable to stay awake as he had requested. He felt the wrench alone; the wrestle and the yield. Deeply, beautifully human, the Masters offer us the choice, the hope, to yield as well. Jesus, Cynthia says, “like all the rest of us, must pass through the ground of his own powerlessness and hopelessness. There is to be no hope in the usual sense, no mightily enthroned power to lift up his burdens, He, too, must discover that ‘protecting nearness’ is his own innermost ground” (pg. 73).

It is such a beautiful portrait of life—the protecting nearness. Ihidaya, right there, turning in towards the fear that would separate us, and coming through, into the yielding for all of us. In love. How do we not separate ourselves from the Being that we share? That we are part and parcel of? What is it to return and keep returning? Dying before we die is a series of moments, unfolding in life. Throwing into our one great cauldron the ingredients of the day, our own unique stew—our cycles of life, errors and mistakes, what we cannot stand and what we love. Letting the alchemy cook. Allowing it to work itself in our sensation, in our hearts, in our minds. I don’t think we need to know anything really—perhaps only how to keep turning into it, and allowing, rather than run.

We learn to let go into “the root energy of love sustaining all” (p. 75) through the upheavals and the unexpected, and all we struggle with inside and out. When the cultural stories of what is success and what is failure thin, when our own compulsions soften—it begins. When we deepen our yielding into the Mercy of God and feel the faint fire of inner hope begin to root itself in the dark mystery of the unknown within us: those sparks cannot die. The glimmers, the sensation of knowing, of surrender to “who we are, as we are, in the world, as it is”*—wow. This is our human miracle. It is an act of trust that even our own brains are loathe to do. But something inside always returns, and as JG Bennet says in his little piece Resurrection: “Even when we do see the helplessness with which we fall into oblivion, at the very moment when we are most trying to hold on to ourselves, we must learn to trust that there is something else that calls us back, and will call us back.” May it be so.

*See the Babette Lightner verse in her exercise Wholeness in Motion led by Heather Ruce here on the Wisdom Waypoints website.

**See Cynthia’s Holy Week Liturgies in the section “Wednesday Vespers: Anointing Ceremony.” Or check out the JG Bennett Foundation here for this and other terrific resources.


Laura is dedicated to an embodied, practical Wisdom, awake and alive in daily life in her inner life and outer work, whether it is in her one-with-one private practice or with the Wisdom Waypoints Living Wisdom groups and book circles. She is a member of the Wisdom Waypoints Council, and was Community Program Coordination and Publishing staffperson until June 2021 all of which cultivated in her a particular love for the Wisdom community. Laura lives in Vermont on the land of the Abenaki people, with her dear husband, near their sons, two grandchildren and her mother.

Mystical Hope – Wisdom Book Circle Series (2022)

The following are part of our monthly series of reflections and resources from the friends and leaders of the Wisdom Waypoints Wisdom Book Circles exploring: Mystical Hope: Trusting in the Mercy of God by Cynthia Bourgeault.

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3 thoughts on ““Mystical Hope” Chapter Four

  1. Thank you Laura…very much appreciate your writing as it described the weaving in and out of life as it is and the connection to a greater whole which I needed to read at this moment in time .

  2. Hi Laura,
    What a beautiful piece. I’m new to Wisdom Waypoints but not new to Cynthia. If you do start another book group on Mystical Hope, I would love to be put on the list.
    Deep gratitude,

  3. Thank you so much for this heartfelt and honest reflection on “dying before you die!” I was so moved by your acute attention to the various flavors of letting go and the wide sweep of love gathered on your words.

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